10/16/14 Two sides of, "I am sorry."

10/16/14 Two sides of, "I am sorry."

1. It is a Bridge Builder.
2. It is not a Bill Payer.

Sometimes people mistakenly think that a simple, "I am sorry," will restore a broken relationship, or heal an injured heart, or cover a multitude of sins. The fallacy is intensified when the "apology" is totally mechanical or only half hearted. Actual injury or abuse is not atoned for by any human action, much less by cheap words. "I Am Sorry," Does Not Pay The Bill.

However, a soul searching, heart felt expression of personal remorse and humility goes a long way in restoring broken relationships and healing hurting loved ones. While it is true that Divine forgiveness and reconciliation are essential for our transgressions against God, remorse, repentance and restitution are often essential for reconciliation with people we have hurt or violated. In fact, if we are not willing to humbly reach out to those we have offended, we may not experience renewal and restoration with God. "I Am Sorry," Is Sometimes A Bridge Builder.

Heart felt repentance and humble confession to others is related to our love for them and our sincere desire to do the right thing.

"I Am Sorry," Does Not Pay The Bill, But It Can Be An Essential Component To Bridge Building.